HEALING FROM SEX ADDICTION AND BETRAYAL TRAUMA STARTS here.
SPECIALIZED, CONFIDENTIAL THERAPY - IN-PERSON IN BOZEMAN, MT & FRISCO, TX, and ONLINE ACROSS MT, TX, FL, SC & VT
You know life can be better than this.
You keep promising yourself this will be the last time.
You’ve tried to stop, but the cycle keeps repeating. Porn, sex, secrecy… always chasing a high that never really satisfies. You’re exhausted, ashamed, and unsure what change would even look like anymore. You need real accountability, not just insight. You want to feel in control, and like yourself again. You’re hesitant to label yourself as an “addict", yet know something is definitely wrong.
Or maybe you’ve just discovered your partners betrayal. Your world has cracked wide open, and you’re reeling. You can’t stop replaying everything, and nothing feels safe or stable. You thought your relationship was solid, and now you’re questioning everything. What was real? What was a lie? Nothing feels clear in any part of your life. You need more than reassurance - you need containment, clarity, and care that doesn’t minimize what you’re going through
We can help.
Healing from sex addiction and betrayal trauma requires more than theory - it takes deep understanding, the right structure, and a process that’s paced and practical.
We’re a husband-and-wife clinical team who’ve lived through the realities of sex addiction and betrayal trauma, and we bring that lived experience into every part of our work. This isn’t about our story, but we do lean on what we’ve learned does (and doesn’t) work to guide you through a process we know intimately, with clear boundaries and deep respect for what’s at stake.
We work individually with clients, and collaborate closely as a team when requested. For those who need momentum, we also offer intensives and retreats to help you stabilize and start moving forward faster.
For clients struggling with porn addiction or compulsive sexual behavior, we provide structured, accountability-focused support to interrupt acting-out patterns, regain control, and become the best version of yourself.
For partners impacted by infidelity or sexual/emotional betrayal, we prioritize safety, trauma-informed care, and the slow, necessary work of rebuilding trust in yourself, with no pressure to reconcile before you’re ready.
You don’t have to convince us this is serious. We won’t minimize what you’re going through, and we won’t let you get stuck. This is serious work - and we’re here for all of it.
OUR SPECIALTIES
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We’ll help you interrupt compulsive sexual behaviors in a way that is structured, shame-free, and focused on real behavioral change - not just insight.
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We’ll support you as you stabilize, regain clarity, and begin healing without minimizing your experience or rushing outcomes.
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We will guide you through a structured, intentional process where the partner who acted out will share the full truth safely and intentionally, preventing trickle truth and stopping further harm.
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Regardless of the type of trauma you have experienced, when you join us in the beautiful mountain west for this concentrated application of trauma-focused therapy, you will unlock a faster, deeper journey towards healing.
*EMDR is also available as part of individual sessions.
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In our couples intensive, you’ll learn new rules of engagement and gain tools for improved communication while building on existing strengths within the relationship.
How we’ll work together
To successfully do this work means incorporating more than talk therapy. Our approach is structured, trauma-informed, and shaped by both clinical training and lived experience. We know firsthand what actually helps stabilize the nervous system, interrupt compulsive behavior and spiraling thoughts, and reduce suffering early in the process - without shame or blame.
In the beginning, we’ll focus on stabilization. For those navigating sex or porn addiction, this means reducing symptoms and building capacity to face triggers and unpack the underlying drivers of acting out. For betrayed partners, this means helping you feel safe, validated, and emotionally grounded enough to make informed decisions, not rushed ones.
We utilize evidence-based approaches that have worked for our clients for over a decade, framed within a clear treatment structure that prioritizes accountability, regulation, and safety for both partners. We apply our methods thoughtfully, and in the right sequence to create a foundation for real change - whether that’s defining healthy sexuality, repairing trust, or reclaiming your sense of self after betrayal.
Most importantly, we didn’t develop these methods in theory; we built this process by doing this work ourselves and learning what actually moves recovery forward. It won't be easy, but we believe in your ability to do the work, even if you can't see the way right now.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO GO THROUGH THIS alone
For some clients, individual therapy isn’t enough on its own. We offer clinician-led therapy groups for sex addiction and betrayal trauma as part of a structured treatment process. Our groups reduce shame and isolation, increase accountability, and offer a level of connection that supports real momentum - without chaos or oversharing.
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here’s how to
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Reach Out
Schedule a complimentary consultation to talk through what’s happening and determine next steps.
GET STARTED:
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STABILIZE & ASSESS
We focus on arresting acting out behaviors, creating safety, and defining a plan tailored to your needs.
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CREATE REAL change
From there, we move into structured work focused on behavioral change, healing, and relational repair (when you’re ready).
We know how much courage it takes to reach out for help. We promise that you will be treated with the respect, empathy, and compassion that your courage deserves, from a team that has been there, too.
Change is possible.
You don’t have to keep living in secrecy, fear, or damage control mode. With the right structure and support, compulsive sexual behaviors can be interrupted, trauma can be addressed, and clarity can return. This work isn’t easy, but it is possible. And we’re here to show you the way.
We offer in-person therapy in Bozeman, MT., Frisco, TX., and Miami, FL as well as intensives and retreats in Montana. Virtual sessions are available throughout MT, TX, FL, SC and VT. Call or click below to schedule a complimentary intro call and start the road to recovery, today.